It’s amazing how men are applauded for every women they sleep with but women are shamed for one

Its always been that way hasn't it ! A great man is a great lover, but a great woman is chaste. Its not fair on most poeple but sex is a competitive market - and I think logically that is driven by genetics as in all other animals, The competiton for mating is part of whatseems to drive "survival of the fittest: and so we end up with rediculously shaped animals in which 1 sex or the other has huge display features to their anatomy. So male peacocks have ridiculous feathers, bonobos have big bums and their nearest relatives humans, well I've read that apparantly thats why women have big breast and men love them - as theres no fetility or nurtuing benefit ? However I know that in ll chimps, the ladies have their secret lovers on the side, and I suspect that's true for human society as well, seeing as most of my lovers have been secret... So men show off their trophies and dare other women to try _ think of Don Juan/Don Giovani - and women try to be discrete - and those you hear about are the highly prominent ones like Pricess Anne and Princess Diana wh's indiscretions sell papers. Statistically ignoring homosexual activity, there should be as many male affars as female affairs but I think the number of genetically succesful males with multiple notches on their bed post is far fewer than the number of females beacuse men are more promiscuous by nature and women are more picky so the rest of us dont tend to get much of a look in LOL.