It’s amazing how men are applauded for every women they sleep with but women are shamed for one

Selfish genes a man wants to know that his children are actually his. Obviously reproduction is about spreading your genes. A virgin woman would be prized for this reason. Not consciously prized but instinctually as an evolved trait. Men are flying blind , they've got no way to tell, women know their children are theirs no matter what. The whole thing is actually vile and has nothing to do with love. More like a bunch of amoebas spreading on in a giant petri dish.