I want to be like other people. I don't understand the sleep around culture.

I do sometimes wonder if I could be like others and I just haven't found anyone attractive enough to go back their house on the first date.

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ViciDraco · 41-45, M

The only time I would want to sleep with someone on the first date is if we've known each other for a while prior to dating. Because then the date is less about getting to know but more about making things official.