Why do you think you're still single? I have more masculine facial features for a woman I think that's why I'm single currently 🙁

@BrokenAbyss The question is what are you not settling for? Are you looking for a 10, when you are a 7. Are you a 9 and an 8 just want work for you. The point is... are you using the 'won't settle' argument to talk yourself out of relationships that might be good possibilities?
Just question to pose to yourself.

@GoingDownSouth No that is not what I mean. I mean have suffered a great deal and endured. I have faced fears and had great experiences. To me most people lead boring lives and their boredom gives way to manipulative behavior and attention seeking. I do not want a normal relationship. Nor a normal anything. I am not concerned with looks no one thinks this is possible but it is. I am attracted to a person who knows themselves and is brave enough to be kind and gentle.

It has nothing to do with what you said. That is a shallow projection of a question you should likely pose yourself instead of assuming I am being shallow.

@BrokenAbyss I understand your meaning. I am that shallow when it comes to looks. However, I am very aware many people are capable of not being like myself.
My question was to clarify your goals. There's no need to get defensive with my first question.

Like you, I know who I am after massive invasions of myself and years of work.