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Criaturamarina · 31-35, F
I have bad luck. I've had five boyfriends. I was engaged to the first one. He cancelled the wedding because he found someone else.

I hate being single but I just can't deal with today's modern personalities. Nobody seems to know what love is anymore. What happened to beauty? why does everybody want orange green or purple hair so they look like a clown? Why does everybody want to wear these piercings and gauges and look like one of Satan's advocates? (One time I actually puked in the middle of a shopping center because somebody looks so bad I couldn't tolerate it and that was embarrassing) Why does everyone want to fake you out and then rope you in for the kill and walk away with everything you ever worked for? I could go on and on and on. not happy that I'm going to be single forever but that's probably what it's going to be.
BananaBrown · 41-45, F
Because currently men disgust me, and I trust them about as much as I trust a career criminal with keys to a bank vault.
I’m still single because that heart of mine has been broken too many times to the point that I don’t have a heart left anymore. Sick of my heart being used up and thrown away like it’s a bag of dog shit.
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Lots of reasons, but mostly it's hard for me to connect with someone on a deeper level and I need that in order to be with anyone.
I’ve worked really hard on myself and I won’t settle. I’m a lil chubby but very healthy. So if someone were to judge my looks they’d be missing out and that’s not what I want anyway.

Also I’m not very sociable.
@BrokenAbyss The question is what are you not settling for? Are you looking for a 10, when you are a 7. Are you a 9 and an 8 just want work for you. The point is... are you using the 'won't settle' argument to talk yourself out of relationships that might be good possibilities?
Just question to pose to yourself.
@GoingDownSouth No that is not what I mean. I mean have suffered a great deal and endured. I have faced fears and had great experiences. To me most people lead boring lives and their boredom gives way to manipulative behavior and attention seeking. I do not want a normal relationship. Nor a normal anything. I am not concerned with looks no one thinks this is possible but it is. I am attracted to a person who knows themselves and is brave enough to be kind and gentle.

It has nothing to do with what you said. That is a shallow projection of a question you should likely pose yourself instead of assuming I am being shallow.
@BrokenAbyss I understand your meaning. I am that shallow when it comes to looks. However, I am very aware many people are capable of not being like myself.
My question was to clarify your goals. There's no need to get defensive with my first question.

Like you, I know who I am after massive invasions of myself and years of work.
summersong · F
I’m a middle-aged workaholic with kids. Not really the most desirable thing plus I don’t have the attention span to deal with dating apps or anything like that.
I just became single again this year after 19 years. I am not so anxious to change that right now.
MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M
I am sure you are beautiful, that probably isn't the reason.
Witchthatwantsfun · 31-35, F
@MrAverage1965 You’re so sweet thanks😇😇
icedsky · 51-55, M
Has to be my work. Always here. Rotating shifts so both day and nights
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
I don't meet people.
Also, I have more masculine desires for a woman... 😂
Whodunnit · M
Maybe it's the beard? 🤔
Witchthatwantsfun · 31-35, F
@Whodunnit No I just don't have a soft look to my face like most women😂
Whodunnit · M
@Witchthatwantsfun I know how you feel... I have very girly buttocks
I’m single because I’ve been choosing that option. The last time I was asked to [b]not[/b] be single was in 2017. My depression is not something I’ve wanted to inflict on a partner.
Justenjoyit · 56-60, M
Everyone is attracted to different features and looks so there is always someone who will think you are beautiful
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