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To all the single people, are you single by choice or due to other reasons?

I’m curious to know about the different reasons some are single and how your life is during this time. Do you enjoy being single? What do you enjoy while/if you’re waiting to meet that special someone?
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swirlie · 31-35, F
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Thanks for the cursory push of your 'heart' button Kara, but what's your opinion of being single?[/c]
DeathAndDespair · 31-35, F
@swirlie I actually used to struggle badly with being single due to feeling very lonely and isolated. I do feel a little lonely but not in a bad way. I’ve come to realize that I actually enjoy my own company and I can handle the single life. I think being ok with being single means you let go of the negative inhibitions and realize that life is too short to be miserable without a partner. I think we benefit most from realizing that depending on ourselves and engaging in our own emotional independence just makes us strong and resilient. That way we’re prepared when someone happens to pop up that we can see ourselves dating and falling in love with. That’s what I’m currently doing and I’m sure he’s out there someone doing his own as I am with my own life.
swirlie · 31-35, F
@DeathAndDespair
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Excellent response. Very well composed and written. Have you ever heard of the concept of 'Manifestation'?[/c]
DeathAndDespair · 31-35, F
@swirlie I’ve heard about manifestation but I only know of it on a surface level. I’m not familiar with the detailed description of manifestation but I do believe it involves that whatever vibe/energy you exert outwards will naturally pull your desired person to you gradually.
swirlie · 31-35, F
@DeathAndDespair
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That is correct. Your lot in life didn't just happen to you. You actually brought it to yourself, both the good stuff and the bad stuff sadly to say.

If you are single and you cannot find Mister Right, it's actually because you have put out a message in the form of a vibe or an energy that you DO NOT want him to show up! This is not normally a conscious decision we make when we self-sabotage our intent, but it IS done by us and us alone nonetheless.

That being the case, you can turn the tables and manifest way too many people into your life as well if you're not careful! [/c]