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Beautifullyderanged · 41-45, F
It can take a long time to trust anyone. There's always the worry of giving too much of yourself and getting next to nothing in return, or being taken advantage of. I don't really have anyone anymore because I'm only important when they need me and if I need help there's no chance I'll get it and those relationships are so damaging. Saying that you need to be able to trust again, but you can only do it at a speed you're comfortable with. Don't hide away but don't give too much either you need to find that balance so you can protect yourself until you are comfortable with the relationship to show more.