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happy with who I am and where I'm at

I am single and have been for a couple of years now.
Okay more than a couple.
I'm actually very happy with my relationship status.
I have never really felt defined by being in a relationship like some people do.
I finally found a woman that I trusted enough to have kids with but it was late in life. And when we divorced I didn't feel the need to replace her.
So overall the relationship did what it was supposed to do.
Now I have three wonderful children that are my world and that is all I am worried about as far as any relationships go.
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Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
I can totally understand that. I don’t think I would pursue a relationship never mind marriage again. Been there and done that. I don’t need a relationship to make me feel whole.
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
@Keepitsimple well I do have to add that things happen in our lives when we least expect them.
Before I had met my wife I had given up on meeting the right person and ever having kids.
Then out of the blue I met her.
We obviously didn't stay together forever but as that turns out it was okay.
Overall I think she is probably in a better position now than she was with me.