I Am Single

@Viper yeah finding someone who can accpect me is really hard i feel i won't find it sometimes i can't really tell if a guy even likes me for pete sake

@kitkat2906 I think a lot of people have lots of troubles when it comes to themselves, it's must easier to see and judge something as an outside then one of the two on the inside... because further away you can see the big picture, where closer, it's harder to see the big picture.

@Viper i just get really down about it sometimes but i don;t like anyone i highly doubt anyone will come forth plus its only been 4 months so its probably too soon

@kitkat2906 yeah, well try to enjoy your single time why you got it :) some in a relationship wish they were single, of course it always seems like the grass is greener on the other side.

And you're right, it's probably too soon. I don't know what to keep you up about it, but it's better to be single, then in a bad relationship. :)

@Viper true i am kinda scared of getting hurt so its holding me back

@kitkat2906 well I think there are many theories about that, and I don't think there is a right or wrong... I think the best advice I've heard on the subject is look at all objects and find out which one would you more regret NOT taking a shot at in 10 - 20 years.


And one thing I've learned the hard way, is there are always ways to get hurt no matter if you put yourself out there, or put yourself in a turtle shell... because we're humans have have lots of feelings, we have to watch out and pay attention to things that might hurt us, but we can run, but we can't hide from the pain of getting hurt... it's sad but true. So I'd suggest, try to look at other potential factors other than pain/hurt because they're a factor in everyone option... though maybe you need to recover more still if the break-up was rough.

yeah its been hard he goes to my college and its just akward and i can't see my self dating this soon like i want to

@kitkat2906 well then it's good to give it time and let yourself heal :)

@Viper plus none of the guys catch my eye

@kitkat2906 well maybe it's time to just relax and try not to think of any of that stuff and clear your mind, and focus on school or fun stuff until maybe someday someone does catch your eye

@Viper i been doing that for the past 4 months but i can't help how i feel at this point i am scared to even open

@kitkat2906 sounds you you're maybe thinking about it? ... but it makes you nervous? ...

I honestly don't know the best advice for that, but I would maybe suggest do it slowly, like just get yourself to tell one person one thing... not too much, don't tell a lot, but one thing... and if it feels right keep going, if it doesn't then stick to that one thing.

Then maybe tell someone else, one other thing... and basically repeat.

That way you're getting yourself out there, but you're also limiting it and hopefully limiting the potential pain.

@Viper yeah

@kitkat2906 yeah yeah :P :)