I Am Single
I am single and been single for only 4 months but i find it hard at times because i get jealous of couples holding hands.
26-30, F
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Viper · M
I can certainly understand, sometimes it hard for me seeing couple play/goof around with each other while in a store or something, just being playful and silly with each other because I miss having that special connection where you do all the extra special little stuff with someone special. :)
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Viper · M
@kitkat2906 sounds you you're maybe thinking about it? ... but it makes you nervous? ...
I honestly don't know the best advice for that, but I would maybe suggest do it slowly, like just get yourself to tell one person one thing... not too much, don't tell a lot, but one thing... and if it feels right keep going, if it doesn't then stick to that one thing.
Then maybe tell someone else, one other thing... and basically repeat.
That way you're getting yourself out there, but you're also limiting it and hopefully limiting the potential pain.
I honestly don't know the best advice for that, but I would maybe suggest do it slowly, like just get yourself to tell one person one thing... not too much, don't tell a lot, but one thing... and if it feels right keep going, if it doesn't then stick to that one thing.
Then maybe tell someone else, one other thing... and basically repeat.
That way you're getting yourself out there, but you're also limiting it and hopefully limiting the potential pain.
kitkat2906 · 26-30, F
@Viper yeah
Viper · M
@kitkat2906 yeah yeah :P :)
MarmeeMarch · M
. I used to feel bad seeing couples together then I started to see couples together that did not seem as happy as they should be. The husband carrying the shopping bag - the wife talking down to him.. or the husband being short with his wife in public. Then I say to myself - thank God I dodged that bullet.
MarmeeMarch · M
@kitkat2906 Yea its hard these days - its not the end of the world if you are single -
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@kitkat2906 Then use your head when you marry, not your heart.
kitkat2906 · 26-30, F
@greenmountaingal yeah if i ever get married lol i need to find a stable bf first
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
Most relationships don't work out. Some of them are real disasters. Most of what you are seeing is temporary infatuation and/or a brief affair. It is your own romantic imagination that makes it seem so special and wonderful. Very few of these couples are people to be envied.
kitkat2906 · 26-30, F
@greenmountaingal i couldn't agree more i am ok with being single for most part but the lonelniess can be hard sometimes.
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@kitkat2906 I understand. But loneliness can open the door to meeting new people while being trapped with the wrong person shuts all doors.
kitkat2906 · 26-30, F
@greenmountaingal yeah
AlmostAnAngel · 100+, F
IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
I have been single for 24 years which is my whole life.
kitkat2906 · 26-30, F
@IWasCallingYaLarry i hope you find someone
IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
@kitkat2906 thanks. Same goes to you. I doubt I ever will.
Same. But mostly just feel sad:(
kitkat2906 · 26-30, F
@canusernamebemyusername yeah but then in my head i am like well they may not last forever i feel most relationships end one way or another
My sister said she gets jealous of couples too lol
SW-User
It seems to get worse with time. At least for me it did
Coolkid77 · 31-35, M
Same here only I've been single my whole life.
Jmod42 · 26-30, M
If you had a super power what would it be?
Tukudo · 41-45, M
How old are you? You will get nice one🙂
Newboy08 · 36-40, M
Hi me too
Ikarosswings0 · 36-40, M
Me too