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I think more than anything I just want someone I can give my heart too.

That I can trust and feel safe around. I know it's not possible or realistic. But I still have that ache.
You're working against yourself by holding onto the belief of knowing giving your heart to someone you can trust and feel safe around, isn't possible or realistic. There's no way to satisfy that ache you still have with that kind of contradiction going on inside of you.
Leggs · 46-50, F
One thing - People have this ideal image of what love is.

Yeah there IS the short period where there is romance, good morning texts, fun, laughter, dating, cannot wait to see him, awesome $ex, all the Hollywood junk.

But then soon the fighting starts, the other person trying to tell you how to live, maybe some ex gets ahold of them and there goes the relationship, favorite bedroom activities are denied by one person or the other, maybe things turn into the "Here's Johnny" scene from that movie The Shining, he starts acting distant or like a jackass,

Would it really be worth all that mess just for that short period when things SEEM to be going well?
checkoutanytime · 41-45, M
Would be nice I agree with that, the thing is we all come from a mixture of oppositions, that create different conflicts of no value.
Ivonne333 · 36-40, F
[@1201531,checkoutanytime] I suppose so.
Learn to trust and feel safe with [i]yourself,[/i] and give your love to YOU!

Until you do, you won't find it in someone else.
Me too. I thought I found him..💔😭
Ivonne333 · 36-40, F
[@674752,ZenPearl] it really hurts doesn't it
[@1120488,Ivonne333] Yeah..it feels like this
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Ivonne333 · 36-40, F
[@674752,ZenPearl] that's a pretty accurate depiction
PrincessVelvet · 31-35, F
Even players get rejected. The difference is they say F-it and keep going. Never quit!
eyeno · M
Something I've never thought possible either...until...,
Bigbass77 · M
I know the feeling I just broke up with my girlfriend a couple weeks ago we dated for over three years
Bigbass77 · M
[@1120488,Ivonne333] yes the last 6 months she hated her job and used me but I finally had enough
Leggs · 46-50, F
[@1193377,Bigbass77] Good things you kicked her butt to the curb.
Didn't even live together and she wanted you to pay her bills?

Shiiiiit!
Ivonne333 · 36-40, F
[@1193377,Bigbass77] that's good you stood up for yourself
ABCDEF7 · M
Best Wishes 🙂
Ivonne333 · 36-40, F
[@176592,PhoenixPhail] wise words 🙂
Coldplay · 56-60, M
Don’t give up.
Bigbass77 · M
[@1073121,Leggs] yes it took me a little while because I really loved her very much
Ivonne333 · 36-40, F
[@1193377,Bigbass77] I know. I want brave enough to end my relationship when I had a chance. And now I'm looking at 22 yrs down the drain.
Bigbass77 · M
[@1120488,Ivonne333] it’s really hard I’m sorry for all you had to go through
Ivonne333 · 36-40, F
[@1193377,Bigbass77] thanks.
Leggs · 46-50, F
Chances for singles over 30 finding love just are not good.
I mean dating or "encounters" can easily happen though.
Ivonne333 · 36-40, F
[@1073121,Leggs] I know😞

 
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