Why do people go crazy over attractive good looking people but end up settling for average looking people?

Not saying it’s a bad thing being with an average looking person.
My older brother used to go crazy over Britney Spears back then. He said he wants to marry a girl that looks liked her but he settled for an average woman but she is beautiful and very good to him.
Same with my other brother.
My girl pals and I went crazy over Taylor Lautner, Channing Tatum and Brat Pitt! Whooo weeee! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
But we end up dating average looking guys instead.
My gorgeous cousin prefers average guys and is happily married to one. She is happy that’s all it matters. Him too.
I don’t understand this.

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BigAssLeech · 31-35, M

Because there's a difference between lust and love.

Ontheroad · M

@BigAssLeech This! Exactly this!

PetiteJulie01 · 22-25, F

@BigAssLeech Yeah so? People go crazy over model looking people but date average joes and plain Janes instead.

BigAssLeech · 31-35, M

@PetiteJulie01 But those people aren't in love with those model-looking people. They just want to fuck them, or at least fantasize about it. Big difference

Carissimi · F

You don’t understand what? That your cousin prefers average guys, or people find celebrities attractive (because generally they are, more so than the average person, that’s why they are a celebrities)? Most people who don’t have movie star looks, find someone more on their own level, and what is attractive to one, may not be attractive to another. Some average looking people become more attractive as you get to know their personality. Attraction isn’t always about looks, although it plays a part.

Flowerz · 36-40, F

There is a bit of glitz and glamour that comes with being a celebrity. You can be an average looking person and be a celebrity too.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

I kinda like both, there’s something really nice about plain girls, maybe they’re less threatening or something? I kinda think I can act more myself around them maybe. But then super attractive girls are really nice too obviously.

th3r0n · 41-45, M

Looks are nice and all, but how you're treated and the connection you have and the way you relate are all much deeper

SW-User

That’s me. The reason is that I go for personality not looks or body type.

SW-User

You get what yout get

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