Where did I go wrong is almost always more than one specific data point. It's a collection of poor decisions. The bright side of this is, fixing the problem is often as simple as making even slightly better decisions and continuing to do so over a period of time.
The first step is recognizing that, You're good enough You're smart enough and gosh darn it, people like you!
@SW-User I definitely feel that. I'm 25 rn & everybody tells you you're still young so you got time to get where you're going but when you don't even know where you're going shits just hazey