Nearly every time I befriend someone we need to have... the "talk"

@nightjourney theres always the possibility

@MartinTheFirst Especially. My experiences so far are girls say they want "nice and sensitive," but they tend to gravitate to the opposite. I've started making a distinction between girls in general and those with the type of values that would lead to a meaningful relationship though. So, that's changed things a bit, but also limited the number of opportunities that could lead to a "real" outcome.

@MarkPaul Ooh I see.. yeah they think delicate means sensitive, they want you to be sensitive with them but you need to have thick skin. I think that's what they mean when they say they want sensitive guys.

@MartinTheFirst Yeah, exactly. I'm learning though... finally. It just takes quite a lot of precise navigating through all those feelings. It's an adventure...

@SW-User Telling them im not the big bad monster they see me as