My ex was a physically warm person. He had the warmest hands.

He knew how the cold hurt me and he knew how good it felt when he touched me and held me...

But he wouldn't touch me or hold me or even just put his hands on my back. I could be sitting next to him crying in pain and he wouldn't touch me.

There were so many signs that he didn't actually want or care about me. I can't understand why he thought he did.

He was the most junk lover imaginable.

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caccoon · 36-40

"There were so many signs that he didn't actually want or care about me. I can't understand why he thought he did."

He is broken. He wanted you, but he did not know how to love you in the way you need.

He's a broken thing that you cannot fix. It is on him.

I understand feeling like it's something to do with you, but he is like this with everyone. It doesn't matter how lovely you could possibly be... He does not have the skill set to be a good companion.