Apparently I should have known better

Apparently I need to start asking if self harm scars are a turn off so soon in a new flirtation.

Apparently not admitting something im severally ashamed of means im hiding something

Apparently I should have disclosed this before the first date even happen.

Apparently im an idiot 🤷‍♀

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MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M

I never dated anyone who has self harned but I have worked with a few who clearly self harmed in the past but it was never mentioned. They were lovely people and that's all that mattered. If I had dated either I would have hoped they would eventually talked to me about it but in their own time.
The person you dated was totally in the wrong.

MellyMel22 · F

No, that’s on them. Screw them.

MyMonstersAreReal · F

@MellyMel22 I wanted to that’s the bad part. I actually really liked them and it had been a while and it’s just hurtful when my weakest moments come back to haunt me again and again

MellyMel22 · F

@MyMonstersAreReal I would understand why it wasn’t shared that early on. They should too. I think it just wasn’t meant to be. If something like that could upset them that much. You deserve better. But I know it can suck still.

InterdimensionalSideEye

I mean, for a first date I don’t see how that would be a prerequisite. I don’t know, I don’t date so I have no idea how it works these days.

BillyMack · 46-50, M

You’re not an idiot. That’s a tough thing to share and takes a lot of trust to tell someone. I’m sorry that happened but that’s a them issue.

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