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I Enjoy Being Alone But I Get Lonely

I think that is normal to feel lonely once a while.
I have to say I am very lucky and happy person.
Once a while I get lonely. And that is when the funny part comes.
What do I do?
I install tinder or some kinda meeting/dating app. I don't know what is your experience with these apps. Mine is: I hate them but they work so well. Everyone is on tinder.
(How it works:If you swip right you like the person, left you don't. If both sides like each other you get match and can chat)

For bit atractive woman, it is almost always match. So before you know it, there is plenty men that are chatting with you.

I have to say is bit overwhelming. It is good for confidence, on other hand I know men are like swipping left left...they don't even look. Just hope they get match.
And there is super like. I like a star and the person really likes you.
This super like can happen accidentaly. Lol.

This last time I put my instagram account(mine is not private) to my account in tinder and I found that much more effectief. People can see more of you.

I found few friends via tinder. We didn't even date. We just talked for a while and somehow switched to lets meet in very spontaneous way.
Also had few dates. But it didn't lead to anything. It was not bad but I don't know why ...but people are afraid of relationship of any kind these days and prefer fwb or 1ns.

So now I am on tinder. Day 3.
One guy that train in my gym wrote me on insta. Saw me via tinder.. That is nice. Because I wouldn't speak to him in my gym, I am too shy for that. And he told me he wouldn't dare to talk to me. Lol

I don't know how people use to talk to each other without social media...
Jentlemen · 46-50, M
Living alone made me lot more calm. I t is like a drug. Once you start to love it, you can't live with anyone
Raymuundo · 46-50, M
This is fascinating to me. Its like everyone wants social media or an app to legitimise decisions. Please don't take what I say as criticism because I can feel that you see the same thing.
Either way, good luck and I would love to read more of your experiences
Ninive · 36-40, F
@Raymuundo: I get it. thx :)
Paulo · 56-60, M
I never heard of tinder,think I am going to try it. Thanks
Jammer6475 · 46-50, M
Good luck with all that

 
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