I Am Lonely

There's clearly something wrong with me. Everybody keeps leaving me. It's always the same cycle. Meet someone. Have some fun. Then they need help with something. Do everything you can to help, see them through it. Finally it's "Thanks for that, but I think we need some distance now."

Obviously the problem is me.

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TexChik · F

Would that person be honest enough to tell you the truth? If they would then could start working to fix things . I assume your appearance is fine ... I have known people that hired a psychologist or life coach to help them correct things

Xuan12 · 31-35, M

@TexChik: Thank you, TexChik. And yeah, I'm pretty confident my appearance is fine. It's not just one person, and nobody will me what's going on. I think they don't want to hurt my feelings or something. Personally, I think I'm just too boring maybe. Mostly I just work and then relax. Go out every other weekend or so. Travel once or twice a year. I always do my best to be affectionate and supportive, and I don't think I'm failing at those.

TexChik · F

@Xuan12: it's just women that do that???

Xuan12 · 31-35, M

@TexChik: My friends aren't very supportive either. Don't have even 15 minutes all week to even talk on the phone. I get that people can be busy, but damn.

TexChik · F

@Xuan12: hmmm , is it a breath issue ? I've seen that before . And people didn't want to say anything . Surely one of them will tell you what it is that puts them off

Xuan12 · 31-35, M

@TexChik: I don't think they can smell me over the phone too, haha. 😅