I Am Lonely

It's been 4 months sense I've broken up with my ex of three years. I don't regret or wanna get back with her, but it's been so lonely, I don't know why....when we were together she would text me all day everything day...and now...nothing. Most of my friends have jobs and or busy with other things. I have been so lonely that it's lead to depression, and I've had that for a week and it was the worst, I just don't know what to do at all. When I'm alone sometimes, I start thinking about what my future holds for me. I'm scared, I'm scared I'll be alone and die alone, I'm so lonely that it scares me.....

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sleepyhead · 46-50, M

Man up!!! You'll be fine mate! The best thing to do is get yourself back out there and start socialising again, meet new people, go to new places, do new things. Don't waste your life thinking about what might or could have been and start making your life what you want it to be!!

rickoo164 · 56-60, M

I know it's a terrible feeling when you start to tell you finally I was better with my ex than beeing alone....
I stayed 10 years alone not knowing if i could be with someone again... Well the first one who said OK I get re-married again... It's a mistake take your time n don't say yes to anyone unless you know exactly what you're doing. I thought that she will change for me, forget that idea.... You can't change anyone, I don't love her but I still married with her ! If I had balls, I'll divorce her but....

SW-User

I can't give you any answers here and I won't tell you that things will get easier with time. However, you are young and have so much time to make things happen for yourself. And that's the key: try and get back to doing the things that give you pleasure and start feeling happier again. A new relationship will come along; it's already happened before so there is no reason to suspect it won't happen again. All the very best to you.

Marylin · F

You're still too young to get so hopeless

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