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Lonely just want someone to chat with

I just want to make more friends and I’m trying my hand here
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
Try to post about a common subject and people will chime in. There are plenty of people here to talk with. It takes some reaching out and a little lucky timing.
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Youngwolf · 26-30, M
@aboveaverage other than you huh
Busybee333 · 31-35, F
You can message me only if you're okay with me not answering right away (busy life) :)
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IamBack · 31-35, M
And how did you do after almost a year of posting this?
You attract what you are, not what you want. 🥂 <3
MoonaNorth86 · 36-40, F
You can talk to me, are you Elliott north
Musicman · 61-69, MVIP
Usually this is que for you only want to talk to women who will sex chat you. 🤦‍♂️
@Youngwolf Apart from loneliness, is there anything else getting you down?
Anxiety, anger, being down on yourself, state of the world, fatigue, hangover... ?
Youngwolf · 26-30, M
@hartfire all of those minus hangover I usually don’t get hungover easy
@Youngwolf
Try reading Breaking The Patterns Of Depression by Michael Yapko. He's the best on the topic. All of it practical. Cheapest therapy there is.

Getting onto a social site like this is not a bad start - though it contains fischers, pros, salesmen, evangelists, con-artists and trolls. We soon learn to recognise them and develop defenses.
Finding like-minded friends has about the same level of difficulty and ease as in real life - takes patience. Eventually, you're likely to meet at least one person who's sympatico. Others make very agreeable acquaintances.

PS Chemically, alcohol is a depressant.
If you have high tolerance (iw, don't get hung over easily), you may be drinking quite a lot. There'll be phases of abstinence or maybe trying to cut down, but they don't last.
The hardest part is giving up. If you ever want to, try 6 visits in 6 weeks to a local AA group. They give great support because they've lived the journey.

 
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