Trying my best… [I Enjoy Being Alone But I Get Lonely]

Been separated for over a month. All I want is to be respectful to each other and put our stuff aside for the kids.
He doesn’t want this separation and he’s not making it easy.
I know he’s mad and I accept that anger from him but, he keeps pushing the limits. I just don’t know where to draw the line.

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SammyJo · 51-55, F

1 month isn't long. Although it is fine thinking about being respectful to each other, especially for children involved, but just remember....one person is the villain in this story, and that's the one that has split the family....

I'm not saying that to be hurtful or anything, just stating a fact.

One person wanted things to remain the same....and the other wanted change...

That's how it goes. Just give it time...it'll come right.

☺️

SJD x

Marstar22 · 36-40, F

@SammyJo I know I’m the villain, no hurt feelings.

SammyJo · 51-55, F

@Marstar22 Good......It'll just take time. Never fun, leaving the situation.

I've been on both sides; being dumped by my then husband...feeling devastated...feeling very angry....and just pretty horrible to him for a few years....

...and then, splitting with my then long-term girlfriend....I finished it....and felt like shit for doing it....and she was awful to me....

But...every good cloud.....a decade or so later, we bumped into each other as just 2 people.....and, long story short, we overcame our issues and got back together, stronger than ever....got married....and had a child together...

That's how it goes....

Your happiness together separately will come....

☺️

SJD x

DViper97 · 46-50, M

Sorry to hear! Hope it all works out for you.

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