I Am Lonely

So a reason I don't make a lot of posts about my life is because people say the same things im tired of hearing.
join some clubs

Be patient

Get out more

You'll find someone one day

Aw that's a good thing

Join some clubs

Ect

honestly listening to all of that for years is driving me crazy not to mention putting it into practice only to lead to shame and embarrassment.

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Carissimi · 70-79, F

I know. I did that for years when I was younger. It made no difference. I wasn't lonely for groups of people engaging in small talk, I was lonely for a special relationship of connection and intimacy...someone who really cares for you...not just going through the motions of being sociable. I still hear it now. They don't understand.