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I feel so lonely. I have lived here for 8 years and still have no female friends. [I M Lonely]

Everyone already has friends or a family that keeps them busy.
don't look for specific category friends and you'll be fine How to do it?

1. Hide your gender, age, use a display picture that zooms in on a cat
2. Username stays the same it's your identification here
3. Do not care about anyone or anything but at the same time be nice, kind and genuine when you'd interacting with people. When we change our behaviour for people to like us, they never do
4. Discussing current affairs on sw is a good start
5. Even if you do support left wing ideology I suggest you to be neutral with politics here
6. A lot of people here don't really wanna share personal information so if you are talking to them on sw and you guys like answering each other's posts then it's not bad
7.Pin some popular and unusual but interesting posts on your sw profile to attract people who visit your profile first time
8. If you pretend to be a cat here, try posting more cat pics and cat related stuff to make posts more interesting to people
9. Block button is more important than arguments here, helps channelize energy on people who matter on sw
10. Being more active here would definitely help. Posts need not to be high quality or thought provoking but more engagement is important. Also being more active exposes you to people from different time zones
@MeowsoliniReturns I have the same problem, share tips if you get to know how to solve that problem 🤣
MeowsoliniReturns · 51-55, F
@mysteryespresso Ha! I sure will!
@MeowsoliniReturns I think we all do not have friends irl, anyone popular in real life wouldn't feel the need to interact with strangers
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
So sorry.

I have lived in the DC area for 22 years and have no friends.

All my friends are on here, to be honest.
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
@MeowsoliniReturns

You hear that all you single ladies? Meow wants you to hold me tight.
MeowsoliniReturns · 51-55, F
@JoyfulSilence That's right!!! I DO!
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
@MeowsoliniReturns

I promise to purr.
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lol yes men still go out with the “boys” but once women are married they let their family run their shit; you can make friends with women who are in uni or not married tbh
MeowsoliniReturns · 51-55, F
@SW-User Seems that way. Thing is, I am 50, so people in Uni are much too young to want to hang out with me.
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@MeowsoliniReturns ya many ppl are ageist af, you’ll find open minded friends in Toastmasters and probably non denominational church
MeowsoliniReturns · 51-55, F
@SW-User Hee hee. Sometimes I wish I wasn't an Atheist.
I prefer not to have friends, so many people are toxic or fake these days, others have a bad experience and they don't want to get close to others
MeowsoliniReturns · 51-55, F
@RadiantRuby I really miss having close girlfriends.
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MeowsoliniReturns · 51-55, F
@SW-User Thanks!
Adogslife · 61-69, M
Take up going to the gym or yoga or martial arts, some reliable planned event that you can look forward to and meet people.
@Adogslife very good advise
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I’m sorry for that..any groups around you can join?
MeowsoliniReturns · 51-55, F
@SW-User Not sure to be honest.
Aww im so sirry 😔 🤗 💜🌷
MeowsoliniReturns · 51-55, F
@AFreeThinker81 Thank you for being so kind. 🤗
@MeowsoliniReturns im in touch with my fem side and i have mostly all girlfriends here 😊 💜🌷 🤗
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I know that feeling my only real female friend is my cousin. I wish I had some friends to spend time with.
zorroo · 56-60, M
how come, non of your online friends live nearby you?
MeowsoliniReturns · 51-55, F
@zorroo Ha! I wouldn't wish Indiana on anyone!
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🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
Do you and your partner ever socialize with couples that he knows ?
MeowsoliniReturns · 51-55, F
@bijouxbroussard We haven't done so for a very long time.

 
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