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Extremely lonely and low

I am extremely lucky to have a partner, however I have absolutely no friends and most of the time my partner doesn’t really act like I exist, it’s crushing and I don’t know how to cope with it any longer.
I just want to be wanted and feel a connection that doesn’t fade.
MrPerditus1 · 61-69, M
I don't know if you've tried this, but sometimes people can get caught up on everything around them that they accidently take for granted what is right in front of them, with that being said have you told your partner this is how you feel? If someone really cares for another, they might be hurt to hear something like this, but will try to rectify it as best and fast as possible. Sometimes we're not aware of how we are with those around us.

If you've talked to them about it and they don't listen or treat it as nothing important, it might be time to think of other things as well. Taking care of your needs and wants if they aren't interested in that. May sound harsh or selfish, but it's not. If any one has a relationship going, it's because they want to be with that person and to help them along the way. We all would like someone that walks besides us, not in front of.

As for friends? That's a little different. Finding people that share interests with isn't that hard, but keeping it fresh might be nowadays. I know and understand how it can be. I once had many friends, things I did with them and all. But, after an accident, things changed and many couldn't be around me, it was too hard on them. Now? I have the Internet, friends I've made here and other online places, but still...I sit alone. I'm sure you'll find friends once you're able to. If you really want, you can find people that share the same interests to talk with or even do things depending on what it is you really like and love to do.

Just don't give up. Things can always change for the better, sometimes when you least expect it.🤗🌷
Mindful · 56-60, F
I’ve been there... with my ex. You’re too young. Simply be honest and tell your boyfriend that you plan to look for another friend/boyfriend. That you want to see other people. I left my ex over a video gaming addiction. I was alone most days and nights.
I don't know how to answer this.


I have hard time finding friends since I mostly feel happy being myself.


As for partners, talk and let him or her know what you expect.

If you don't ask for it you don't get what you want, most of the times.
Summersrain · 51-55, F
Hope things get better for you
Wolf90 · M
Can't blame you for that. Hang in there! It will turn for you if you keep at it!

 
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