I Am Lonely

I'm feeling really lonely right now :(
Everyone around me is always busy and when I finally do get to spend time with people, it doesn't always help me get over this feeling. I do see people regularly (e.g. at college) but it is not the kind of connection I crave.
I want someone who is like a best friend who I can be myself with. Someone who will give me a hug when I feel down and misses me when we have not seen each other for a while. I want to feel wanted. Obviously, I can't rely on people too much, but even just sometimes would be nice.

I also am usually very open about my feelings with people, but I've noticed that it either bores them or it doesn't really fix what is bothering me. So, on one hand, I want to talk less about my feelings in hopes it might make people enjoy my company more but on the other hand, this just adds to the loneliness. I kind of use websites like this as my 'ranting bin' sometimes, but I wish I was in a better mood so I can post more cheerful things.

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Hanging2 · 51-55, M

Finding a true friend is like a pearl in an oyster.
They are hard to find and when you do you need to cherish them.
Can I make the following suggestions.
Try making friends with an older person. They are happier to let you talk and listen and are interested in you.
Try joining a community group. Do something good with good people and only good can result.
Write down what makes you feel positive and happy each day.
Focus on these and try to tough them everyday.

We all go through this in our lives. Very few can always be popular all the time.
The most important thing is to have a positive outlook. Glass half full.
Good luck and don't be hard on yourself.

MissMoon · 26-30, F

@Hanging2 Thank you for the advice :)