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I Am Lonely

I opened up my world to a man whom I thought cared about me. I shared everything about myself. I told him about how most of my weekends are spent at home and about my strained relationship with my mom (who has kind of cut me out of her life). This is a tiny sample of information.

Months later - he calls me “pathetic” and picks on me on and off about my mom. Pathetic - because I do not go out much on weekends. He also likes to guilt-trip me about my mom. He says I do not care about my parents - what does he know :(. My dad means the world to me.

How many of you’ll have experienced this? Being humiliated after sharing everything from A to Z about yourself.

I have gone into a shell off late and I’m afraid of falling in love again.
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SW-User
That's quite bad. Don't let his assholery to affect your life. :/
solitaire · 41-45, F
He hardly corresponds with me nowadays. Looking back, it was I who made the effort to strike up a conversation - at the end of the day it probably does not make a difference to him
SW-User
@solitaire consider yourself lucky. Some folks become religiously abusive and they come back to life, again and again, only to make it worse. You got your share of pain already. Greater he stays away from you, more convenient it becomes to heal.