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I Keep Too Many Things to Myself

Introvert and Midnight Snack

[c=#BF6900][b][i]"I don’t hate people, I just feel better when they aren’t around.”[/i][/b][/c]

I usually spend the majority of a party playing with the host's kid, or in a quiet nook somewhere, or in a garden outside where there are big potted plants to hide behind. Literally anything is better than small talk. Because "the people weren’t half as interesting." I admit, getting past the barrier of small talk ranges from somewhat daunting to downright terrifying. So I oversimplify and say I don’t like people, when what I actually dislike are the surface-level interactions of social gatherings. I don’t hate people. I just hate shallow socializing. But sometimes, you have to start with some small talk, no matter how painful it might be. Sometimes I leave an event feeling drained and wishing that I had never left the house.
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Gentlequill · 51-55, M
I couldn't have said it better myself. Oops...a lame attempt at smalltalk ;)
silkandlace · 46-50, M
SW-User
@Gentlequill @silkandlace I am more comfortable socializing anonymously, like this, online.
silkandlace · 46-50, M
@SW-User that too
Gentlequill · 51-55, M
@SW-User same here. I don't have to worry about people looking me over as I speak.