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I Keep Too Many Things to Myself

Introvert and Midnight Snack

[c=#BF6900][b][i]"I don’t hate people, I just feel better when they aren’t around.”[/i][/b][/c]

I usually spend the majority of a party playing with the host's kid, or in a quiet nook somewhere, or in a garden outside where there are big potted plants to hide behind. Literally anything is better than small talk. Because "the people weren’t half as interesting." I admit, getting past the barrier of small talk ranges from somewhat daunting to downright terrifying. So I oversimplify and say I don’t like people, when what I actually dislike are the surface-level interactions of social gatherings. I don’t hate people. I just hate shallow socializing. But sometimes, you have to start with some small talk, no matter how painful it might be. Sometimes I leave an event feeling drained and wishing that I had never left the house.
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silkandlace · 46-50, M
Well put, i love interacting, but when it's pointless drivel.....
SW-User
@silkandlace That's how I see it. I get so much drained after socializing. I looked at other people enjoying in a party, and I wonder if what I am feeling is abnormal, or it's just that being an ISFP.
silkandlace · 46-50, M
@SW-User not abnormal at all, we all have our suits; I'm way bettrr in smaller situations; i don't mind 1 on 1, or even 3, but become very uncomfortable when it's a gathering, like you so eloquently put
SW-User
@silkandlace Thank you for taking the time to read. ☺
silkandlace · 46-50, M
@SW-User that cake reeled me in 🤦
silkandlace · 46-50, M
@SW-User kidding my dear, your post was well put, love to find similar thoughts!