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Are you ashamed of you incompleteness? Do you hide your incompleteness?
Are you in denial about you incompleteness?
Do you feel shame because of your short comings?
I have. It has been a source of sorrow and anger. As kid I was creative, humorous, energetic, kind, and chaotic. I would lose everything. Baseball socks ..keys.. homework... shoes... Billy where is your head? Thank Goodness that was tied on.
What was wrong with me? How could I fix it? Why did God do this to me? Was this part of the fall? Did Adam and Eve screw everything up for me? As I have gotten older, I am starting to appreciate differences. I realize that I may be the Idea man but those Ideas go now were without the pragmatic systems person. They annoy me with there steady commitment to boring reality.. I annoy them with my a million new and better ways to approach a problem. I bring the party where ever I go as my 7 year old likes to brag to her cousins. But their is no party without the party planner..
I need others...I am incomplete..I married the most boring person I could find. She majored in accounting and business management. We are opposites. I am high energy and loud.. She is low energy and steady.. I am expressive.. she is a ice cube ..always collecting data and evaluating..and evaluating.. I am muscle..She is bone..
We were made to work together. The only way we can succeed is together...
Should I disparage these differences.. Should I feel like a failure because I am not bone?.. or should I accept my role in the universal dance and enjoy my brief moment in the sun?
Redstar · 31-35, M
I just feel sorry for your wife. If you think shes so boring then get a divorce so she can be with someone who doesn't think she's boring and actually loves who she is, like a husband is supposed to. You don't just marry someone because you think you work well together..
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Great questions and insights! Differences should absolutely be celebrated. We have so much we can learn from each other and offer one another when we're willing to learn, grow and appreciate the differences in each of us!
She was alien to me which makes her interesting.

 
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