You know what? You don't have to pretend to be interested in another. You don't have to put any effort to listen...

you don't even have to try to be more understanding and reach for common ground...you can simply move towards what interests you and find others that share some similar interests and ways of approaching them...
I am thinking of it as i question myself why am i having no friends and why am i not being a good friend. Because i'm far from my tribe. I mean, yes, i believe that we are all one and we can all befriend each other and be joyful but at this very moment i miss a tribe..