Its hard to find a shoe that doesn't look like a sneaker but feels like one

I think boots are the best option when trying be dressy and remain comfy. I really want to try some chunky loafers, but I dunno if they would still look pretty casual.

I have seen decent dance shoes that match what you mean. There are all types of them obviously.. but there are more like “jazz/sneaker” kind. Or these kind of like boots..? Not rly sneakers.

Ay you mean a comfortable formal dress shoe? 😃

That's why the combat boot was created

That’s pretty much impossible

can't you suck it up and put on some 6 inch heels? Thx. ✌

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