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Placing blame.

Have you noticed that so many people blame everyone else for everything?
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SandWitch · 26-30, F
Actually, I don't place blame on others even if their actions have adversely affected the outcome of my day.

Those around us are running their own game just as I am running my own game from the moment my feet hit the floor in the morning. I have a plan for my day but those around me also have a plan for their day as well.

When our individual plans are in synchronicity, our plans work in lock-step with each other though each of us may not know each other. But where our plans fall out of synchronicity is where our individual plans differ from each other somewhere in that day .

Instead of acknowledging that about each other, we tend to blame the other guy for not keeping his plan synchronized with our plan, as if our plan was the official Master Plan and held some level of greater intrinsic importance than the other guy's plan.

This leads to finger pointing and blaming the other guy for not following our plan which didn't include him in the first place!