Do guys loose interest in you once they discover you are not looking for sexting or sex even ?

That might be an uphill battle. Guys, albeit not all, will assume compatibility after a few dates. They’ll wonder why sex isn’t being offered, especially from a more mature woman.

There’s also the question unasked. Do you even like sex enough to be a compatible partner? If it was a month or two, at most, and sex was yet to be on the table, I’d bail.

I’ve experienced a frigid/dysfunctional marriage and it’s simply not worth it. You should be open and honest about your level of sexual desire so that you and your date(s) can be aware of potential differences and make your dating choices accordingly.