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You’re damned if you do, you’re damned if you don’t. They also lose interest once they’ve had sex with someone.
DoubleRings · 51-55, F
Thx for BA. it’s the truth. @Caleidoscope
bijouxbroussard · F
@DoubleRings Like many in real life.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
That might be an uphill battle. Guys, albeit not all, will assume compatibility after a few dates. They’ll wonder why sex isn’t being offered, especially from a more mature woman.
There’s also the question unasked. Do you even like sex enough to be a compatible partner? If it was a month or two, at most, and sex was yet to be on the table, I’d bail.
I’ve experienced a frigid/dysfunctional marriage and it’s simply not worth it. You should be open and honest about your level of sexual desire so that you and your date(s) can be aware of potential differences and make your dating choices accordingly.
There’s also the question unasked. Do you even like sex enough to be a compatible partner? If it was a month or two, at most, and sex was yet to be on the table, I’d bail.
I’ve experienced a frigid/dysfunctional marriage and it’s simply not worth it. You should be open and honest about your level of sexual desire so that you and your date(s) can be aware of potential differences and make your dating choices accordingly.
Caleidoscope · F
@Adogslife My lvel of sexual desire?How do you tell that to a guy?I have no clue .🧐
graphite · 61-69, M
Loose interest?
Caleidoscope · F
@graphite Yeah pretty bored it seems
Selah ·
Sometimes but that's a good thing.
Caleidoscope · F
@Selah Good thing for men ?
Selah ·
@Caleidoscope for YOU! The sooner they leave the more time you have to find someone compatible
Caleidoscope · F
@Selah Not sure if being this rigid will help me get anyone in 2022 .Its a huge ethical compromise.I feel I’m turning off all men who want to come closer.
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
@Caleidoscope so what do you think of Henry Cavill & Would You Do Him
Caleidoscope · F
@JohnOinger Nope
SW-User
On here, for sure.
As soon as I say I am not interested in sex talk, they're 'poof'. 😂
As soon as I say I am not interested in sex talk, they're 'poof'. 😂
Wiseacre · F
Only immature men lose interest when sex isn’t on the table...worth losing.
CheekyBadger · M
Not everyone is looking for sex all the time, so nothing wrong with that.
BiasForAction · M
Some guys seem to have a fascination with me. Go figure
Shallowaters · 36-40, M
Well if he's hungry for only sex he will surely
goliathtree · 56-60, M
loose but not easy, cheap but not free.
AbusedNeglected · 41-45, M
Be careful not to project your own doubts….
littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M
No that's not true.
TheSirfurryanimalWales · 61-69, M
I wouldn't
Bang5luts · M
Some men can. Especially if that is the main or only thing that particular guy is looking for.. Most real men will find a way to let you know what his true intentions are. I hope this helps. I know I try to be candid and honest about my intentions with anyone in interested in.
Caleidoscope · F
@Bang5luts The old way of dating where couples discover their partners’s interests first is outdated I believe.Not that it concerns me but it’s disheartening when sex is the only thing on the mind
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Bang5luts · M
@Caleidoscope that breaks my heart. Yes sexual compatibility is important, but have we as a society in general have moved away from what is truly important between two people. 😪 and somehow think that instant gratification is good for many areas of our lives including romantic interests.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
I usually lose a bit of interest in females when they make it clear somehow that nothing will ever happen. I enjoy a bit of tension even if I'm positive nothing will ever happen. 😌
bijouxbroussard · F
I’m certain some do, but if that’s not why you’re here it’s no real loss.
SW-User
I think you are a little confused.
Do silly little boys lose interest in you once they discover you are not looking for sexting or sex even
Do silly little boys lose interest in you once they discover you are not looking for sexting or sex even
Caleidoscope · F
@SW-User I have turned off major ones in my life so far so theyre not little boys lol ,silly perhaps 🤔.
caesar7 · 61-69, M
🤔