What someone told me made me cry.

I’m not asking for sympathy but I just feel like I need to let it out. They didn’t mean harm but I think they should have not said what they did. Anyway, I’m over it now and yes a good cry is healthy for everyone.
I’m feeling better already 😇✅✅✅✅

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scorpiolovedeep · 46-50, M

Sometimes words and actions could cause harm even if not intended .... very unfortunate.

Get some fresh air, go for a walk.
Clear your head ... have a shower.
Listen to great music (piano)

Recover and get well.
🙏🏼

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@scorpiolovedeep You are very right. I try my best to forget hurtful things in life. Thank you

scorpiolovedeep · 46-50, M

The more we think of them, more rent free they will roam inside the head I learnt.

Moving on at your own pace is the key.
Well done.

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@scorpiolovedeep You have a good point there. I rather not think about them. We don’t need to waste our time going through the hurt over and over.

scorpiolovedeep · 46-50, M

That is how I live my life, when I goto bed all I concentrate is on having a good sleep and eliminate / lessen the negative thoughts of the day / week / month etc

At the end of the day, your well being is important for you to be better.

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@scorpiolovedeep That is the way I should be. From now on I will use your advice. 👍🏼

scorpiolovedeep · 46-50, M

I wasnt like that previously, used to think a lot on a lot of things.

Now , I am handling it better.

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@scorpiolovedeep it’s a good thing that you have been able to turn this way. For me, I just can’t stand anyone showing animosity towards me. If they don’t like what I do then they can talk to me in a respectful manner. I do not tolerate anyone throwing bitter vibes at me. I rarely hurt or bother anyone.

scorpiolovedeep · 46-50, M

No one likes to be disrespected.
I used to be calm and quiet.

But life , people and life experiences have made me to get frustated easily. There are moments where I cannot be quiet. I burst open when pushed to the limit. After that, I go back to my shell.

I am trying not to think of the things I cannot control but it is a slow, patient journey for me.

So work in progress.
Be the best you can.

One thing is we cannot please all people, that is why I only interact / share much with the ones who dont judge for my bad things or faults but see the positive in me.

Life is too short, I just want to enjoy the company of who really care for us.

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@scorpiolovedeep you’re right, we cannot please everyone. I just loathe someone trying to tell me what I should do when it has nothing to do with them. Some people go overboard but it’s best to just ignore what they say

scorpiolovedeep · 46-50, M

Take care, not your fault.
All will be ok.

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