I Have a Dark Side

That's probably 98% of us on here. 😉

Join the dark side

You're not the only one. You still have the choice to resist the temptations though. Keep doing that even when it gets unbearable, it'll get easier for it to pass.

Don't beat yourself up over having various desires. Then use your discretion on whether or not you'd like to act on them, depending on their affect on others. Just asking the question eliminates your need for "therapists" 🙄 like some are suggesting. Managing fantasies/desires and accepting them can add a little spice to life. The ones who tell you that you need help or that you have some sort of problem, well ..... take with a grain of salt 🙂

I have dark side too

I know that feeling. It leaves you rather confused and questioning things you thought you knew about yourself

Embrace it. You will be able to control it much easier that way.

there is much you can do about this
but you must be clear with yourself
about what you really want, and what it will mean to your longer life
if you "Go thru with it"

I know a LOT about this,
I am uncomfortable to say more so openly
Please consider a conversation

Balance...think of Dexter. :)

Well I guess it's a part of human nature to always have to wrestle a little between "both sides" of oneself. Ultimately I think the best goal is to try to accept oneself as-is, and what one sees as flaws, try to rectify over time, compassionately.

Either you can work on eradicating the thoughts each time you start going down that path (something I've never had any luck at), or you start - cautiously!! - exploring them as desires, and considering if you want to nibble at any of them as acts.

That totally depends on what type of darker fantasies you're talking about (even though I must say I do have a hunch). Why not try role playing online? It's harmless and you get to explore more of yourself. Maybe you'll learn stuff you didn't even know?

Reality usually is not what one expects. Kind of like the anticipation of a vacation ends up being more fun than the actual vacation...sometimes.

Many of us struggle with these exact feelings. The trade offs and consequences are the things we need to come to grips with.

If you are still around and want to work on controling them, so that your not worried about acting on them, send me a pm .

I let my fantasies turn to realities, it's fun, why not, as long as it's legal and not hurting anyone.

Well it depends on the fantasy really.. I would love to hear more details

You should talk to sombody

Speak to a pastor/priest/rabbi, counselor, or psychologist if you are needing a professional help.

i hope you can find a release for them. you know, without harming too many people!

Are you in a situation that prevents you from acting on them? Maybe you just need to do it and quench your thirst.

it depends what you thinking and what fantasies do you have..

You can overcome come it through focusing your mind like meditation

Mind is more powerful than anything in this universe, focus 😊

You could start by telling us about it

I'd love to hear about what your fantasies are growing into sometime.

What is the nature of your fantasies?

What sort of fantasies/desires?

Would love to hear about them....

🇬🇧 We all help each other on here.💐

Have you made any decisions?

I'd love to hear about them.

Some should probably remain fantasies.

How many people have you killed?

embrace, it's a part of you

I totally relate!

Express them. What do u want to do?

What did you decide?

You should experience them

nothing illegal?

Depends on what it is your dark side is conflicted about...

ps. Pretty pic, by the way ☺

I finally took that step

like what?

Maybe a psychologist 🤔

go for it!!

Let the dark side toll