I Have a Dark Side

That's probably 98% of us on here. 😉

Join the dark side

You're not the only one. You still have the choice to resist the temptations though. Keep doing that even when it gets unbearable, it'll get easier for it to pass.

Don't beat yourself up over having various desires. Then use your discretion on whether or not you'd like to act on them, depending on their affect on others. Just asking the question eliminates your need for "therapists" 🙄 like some are suggesting. Managing fantasies/desires and accepting them can add a little spice to life. The ones who tell you that you need help or that you have some sort of problem, well ..... take with a grain of salt 🙂

I have dark side too

How many people have you killed?

I know what you are feeling there I want to blow the world up because all humans are just killing each other but I am at the point off hopping we all will die I'm sick of people saying life is too short it's to long if you ask me

I know that feeling. It leaves you rather confused and questioning things you thought you knew about yourself

I've given in to my dark fantasies.. and i do not regret it .. I would of been an unhappy sexually frustrated bitch if I hadn't

Embrace it. You will be able to control it much easier that way.

You should talk to sombody

there is much you can do about this
but you must be clear with yourself
about what you really want, and what it will mean to your longer life
if you "Go thru with it"

I know a LOT about this,
I am uncomfortable to say more so openly
Please consider a conversation

Well I guess it's a part of human nature to always have to wrestle a little between "both sides" of oneself. Ultimately I think the best goal is to try to accept oneself as-is, and what one sees as flaws, try to rectify over time, compassionately.

Balance...think of Dexter. :)

Either you can work on eradicating the thoughts each time you start going down that path (something I've never had any luck at), or you start - cautiously!! - exploring them as desires, and considering if you want to nibble at any of them as acts.

That totally depends on what type of darker fantasies you're talking about (even though I must say I do have a hunch). Why not try role playing online? It's harmless and you get to explore more of yourself. Maybe you'll learn stuff you didn't even know?

Reality usually is not what one expects. Kind of like the anticipation of a vacation ends up being more fun than the actual vacation...sometimes.

Are you in a situation that prevents you from acting on them? Maybe you just need to do it and quench your thirst.

Many of us struggle with these exact feelings. The trade offs and consequences are the things we need to come to grips with.

If you are still around and want to work on controling them, so that your not worried about acting on them, send me a pm .

Speak to a pastor/priest/rabbi, counselor, or psychologist if you are needing a professional help.

I let my fantasies turn to realities, it's fun, why not, as long as it's legal and not hurting anyone.

I'd love to hear about what your fantasies are growing into sometime.

You can overcome come it through focusing your mind like meditation

Depends on what it is your dark side is conflicted about...

ps. Pretty pic, by the way ☺

i hope you can find a release for them. you know, without harming too many people!

Well it depends on the fantasy really.. I would love to hear more details

They'll be fine if - generally - they hurt no one ... including yourself.

Mind is more powerful than anything in this universe, focus 😊

If they don't hurt anyone don't worry about it too much.

You got me curious, tell me about your dark side if you please.

it depends what you thinking and what fantasies do you have..

Some should probably remain fantasies.

What is the nature of your fantasies?

what is your dark side..it is dangerous

You could start by telling us about it

I'd love to hear about them.

Express them. What do u want to do?

Would love to hear about them....

What sort of fantasies/desires?

Have you made any decisions?

embrace, it's a part of you

You should experience them

🇬🇧 We all help each other on here.💐

I finally took that step

Maybe a psychologist 🤔