I am curious to know….

Sometimes women expect to be wined and dined before they decide if they're giving it up , if a man just comes out and tell them he's just sexually attracted to her they'll usually look at as there's nothing to gain, it might sound bad but that's the game some women play, if it was me and a guy come out and told he was just sexually attracted to me it wouldn't offend me and if I felt the same way I would go for it, women need sex as much as men do.

Sometimes it comes across in a way that you feel like an object rather than a person

It's not offensive unless you plan on treating the woman like a sexual object. It's the same as a guy rushing through foreplay to get to the "main objective," then falling asleep after.

In my case, it’s usually because it comes with expectation of reciprocation. If not, then all conversation or any pleasantness stops. Or after it’s been expressed, all conversation after that point keeps being brought to that subject. It’s unwanted.

If a woman reacts badly to your advances it’s due to your delivery. You may have done it in a forced or awkward way to cause her some embarrassment or awkwardness which women hate! I’d have to know more to tell you more but those are the only factors you can control. If she’s just social awkward herself or weird she might react oddly too but try changing your approach and see if other women react differently.

My wife says that back when she was younger and heard such comments, she was not offended. It did make further conversation or even a relationship a bit more difficult. She did add that if the sexual comment came from a really creepy man, she might be so repulsed by him that he would mistake repulsion for offense at his comment.

it's because theyre not attracted to the guy, if they were theyd feel differently lol.

The problem is what is ugly or rude, somethings that you may mean that it seems harmless to you, may not land that way in the ears of the Hearer. Like wow baby that’s a hot look on you. Might depending, arrive wrong. This is especially true if the man is 20 or more years older than the woman he wants to compliment.

You will never get a decent answer so good luck with that. 🤣

If the woman doesn't like them back, or like them back in the same way, then it's not going to come across as a compliment and will likely make them feel uncomfortable. That's the chance that you take by being forward. You can get to know someone and build a rapport before you try to turn things sexual. If you shoot for sexual interaction straight away then you can't be surprised if you crash and burn.

Not every woman thinks your Gods gift