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I don’t and I don’t trust people and don’t like feeling vulnerable
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@thelastofus I feel the same. Why let someone know the weaker side of you?
@Beatbox34 that’s the first side they will attack too
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

TheOrionbeltseeker · 36-40, M
To a platform like this, the sole purpose is to bring hidden facts that are inside you bothering you to people who can connect with you without letting your neighbour know, unless, ofcourse if your neighbour too uses SW and has an account.

It's a secret society of the intellectuals.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@TheOrionbeltseeker True.

But I feel this. It's putting one in harm's way too. Most of the stalkers on this have multiple accounts here and it's only a matter of time where they find your weak spot.
@Beatbox34I agree….If they don’t get the info they want on one account, they will get it on another!
@TheOrionbeltseeker doesn't happen though

and I don't see a lot of smarts OR humanity here either
SW-User
Exactly .. but I do it anyways lol
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@SW-User Its not wrong.

Personally I never had anyone by my side to help me in the darkness. Even if I did share, they'd leave. I've learned to accept that the world won't care. It's a way where people feed on your fears. So I tend to not show it anymore.
SW-User
@Beatbox34 sometimes SW is all I got . No support at home .. and this is a place that also makes me laugh too
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@SW-User I really can relate.
SW-User
Sometimes, someone will really care and talk about it...but yeah.. most times, many just say something they feel is fitting and move on. And yes...some definitely use it against you in some way. Internet is one place people can get downright nasty or just not care much at all.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@SW-User I've gotten the same here and in real life. People usually say stuff which is what we want to hear. I'm a man of actions. You care, you'll show it. I show and not throw away words. But from experience, I can say that people usually don't bother about you. They pretty much are bothered when they need to extract something from you hence it's all a matter of when I am useful to them.
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
Not something I find easy, but its necessary. Keeping shit in will work temporarily, but then it will start coming out in physical symptoms. Do it for long enough and it can kill you.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@KuroNeko I understand but I've never met people who would understand so meh I'm dead inside lol.
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
@Beatbox34 it's only you who needs to. It's more about recognizing and accepting how you feel than having someone else do that. Writing is one of the best methods.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@KuroNeko I agree with you that writing helps.
Sometimes talking about it helps me feel a little better, less anxious, pent up. I don't like being asked how I feel all of the time. I often can't identify how I feel or it would take too long to explain.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@midnightrose Plausible.
smiler2012 · 56-60
{@beatbox34] sorry that you feel like that . alas we we now are in an uncaring and selfish world . sometimes you need to get something off your chest and are just looking for a sympathetic ear rather than bottle it up and it drive you crazy worrying about it
SweetMae · 70-79, F
I don't like to talk about my feelings. I can talk about events and experiences but I can't involve my feelings.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@SweetMae It's the sensible thing to do.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Not if I don’t feel safe, if they are used as weapon against me or I feel it’s useless.
SledgeHammer · 46-50, M
Heyyyy......
Wait a minute here!

Did my therapist send you?
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
SubstantialKick · 31-35, M
On here I have no problem. Offline though, I am very reserved.
not here LOL

those in the know understand what I mean
I find so very few care, anyway.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@NoGamesTolerated That's the truth. Now understanding who cares is the hardest part at times.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Sometimes yes, sometimes no. An occasional venting session can be nice, but half the time it keeps the thing that's irritating you alive and well.
@uncalled4 SW is no substitute for a loving friend

we love to forget that if we are in enough need
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@uncalled4 well u got lucky
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Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@CopperCicada No I understand. I'm just stating what I felt given what I felt in support to explain the post.
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