I Am a Curious Person

How do you explain to your spouse that their coldness and unaffectionate nature has caused you to now view them as a platonic partner? I am hoping for some help because all I can come up with is can we just be friends hahaha I don't think that will work.

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RemovedUsername4422 · 61-69, M

Have you read the "Five languages of Love"? Basic concept is that we have five basic languages; gifts, acts of service, words of affirmation, physical touch and time. A person can be giving a 100 percent in "their" dominate language while the receiver might be wanting a different language...(i.e. one wants exciting "time" while the other wants words of affirmation). I would suggest at least skimming it ...

Belovebelight · 36-40, F

I have read that book and it doesn't help because I am the only one reading those books. He won't and doesn't everytime I ask.