I Am a Curious Person

How do you explain to your spouse that their coldness and unaffectionate nature has caused you to now view them as a platonic partner? I am hoping for some help because all I can come up with is can we just be friends hahaha I don't think that will work.

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eibboregon · 26-30, M

Well, what I hear you saying is that you coexist and not much else, beyond that is happening. You seem to be at your wits end. You use words like "platonic partner" and "can we just be friends". Are there children involved? If there are, you have to at least attempt to reconsile (sp) your differences for the children's sake. That being said, you sound miserable and it may be in the best interests of everybody in volved, including the children, to move on and go your separate ways... 👦🏼