When friends ignore you/cut you out/block you completely do you just accept it or does it drive you mad wondering why?

I get so in my head it just takes over. I put on a tough exterior but if I let someone in and develop a friendship I really struggle if it’s just gone one day, it’s like total rejection

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FrozenWasteland · 61-69, M

I wouldn't say it drives me mad, but I always wish I understood the "why". It's probably somewhat of a character flaw that I seek some sort of closure. I'm fine if I can just understand, say goodbye, wish them well and disappear, but not having the opportunity to do that is difficult.