When friends ignore you/cut you out/block you completely do you just accept it or does it drive you mad wondering why?

I get so in my head it just takes over. I put on a tough exterior but if I let someone in and develop a friendship I really struggle if it’s just gone one day, it’s like total rejection

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Unefilletrescurieuse · F

It drives me mad for more than a few days.. of kicking and screaming and then I lose interest of mutual friendship…

If they ignore me, I will never disturb them again. That’s not an easy feat for me.

Great question!

Unefilletrescurieuse · F

@Unefilletrescurieuse ok ok.. the kicking and screaming was metaphorical. Lol

Unefilletrescurieuse · F

@Unefilletrescurieuse hahaha

SW-User

@Unefilletrescurieuse it's hard.

Unefilletrescurieuse · F

@SW-User my description is excessive.. lol sounds like a spoiled brat and I’m nothing of the sort. Lol

SW-User

@Unefilletrescurieuse i just understand very well 💖 and yeah it sucks

Unefilletrescurieuse · F

@SW-User Not many people at all cause me these feelings. But those that do… yeah not knowing why is painful.

SW-User

@Unefilletrescurieuse only when they are important that happens

Unefilletrescurieuse · F

@SW-User I feel like if anyone doesn’t want me in their presence of any sort, at least be big enough to say why. That’s closure there.

SW-User

@Unefilletrescurieuse honestly in that sense sometimes the answers don't make much sense either, or are lies.. Or you don't get them but yeah sometimes they give closure.

Unefilletrescurieuse · F

@SW-User “lies’ hahaha there’s a rare few that can be big enough to say, “Friend, I don’t like you. I feel superior to you. And you are beneath me and you absolutely can NOT be my friend.” Thing is if they feel superior to me, there is nothing they could say nicely. Anyone that stuck on them self, I guess it’s the best thing.

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@Unefilletrescurieuse well if they don't value you it's better that they leave, in the end life is short

Unefilletrescurieuse · F

@SW-User Yes.. I guess so! But who doesn’t want to be friends with moi? LOL just kidding!! 😉

Unefilletrescurieuse · F

@SW-User I believe anyone that pushes ‘anyone’ away does does not value them. People have a way of keeping close to people they value. But that’s just me.