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I don't know what the hell to do.

Dad at this point is willing to go to family therapy, but Mom won't.

She has absolutely no faith in his desire to change, and I don't blame her.

He claims she's never told him about all of these things that bother her until recently.

She has. Every day. He just refuses to listen. Or worse yet, he gives her lectures about money like she's a child.

No wonder she doesn't see any other way out.
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Maybe they need to separate. I'm sorry for what you are going through. Focus on the mom.
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
@greensnacks The problem with that is, my dad holds control over the rental properties I'm trying to help save, and he's going to run them into the ground. My name is on the debts he's incurring.

Someone has to stop him.
@LordShadowfire if you can do anything about it, do it. If not, try to leave you and mom and anyone trapped with least damage possible. I know it's painful but sometimes giving up of property is the better mental option. At least you have energy you'll save from "saving" something that's doomed and can focus on building anew.
I speak from first person experience.

 
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