Some of y'all gotta stop being hypocrites

And attacking other users who haven't harmed you and whose relationship is none of your business.
You're not in your teens anymore. This isn't Mean Girls.

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iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

It was petty of me to say that she was a bully to others on that thread but I have seen her many times put down women because they were getting attention and she felt the need to bring them down a few notches. I have addressed her for that and asked her to stop.

You don’t tell someone with an eating disorder that they are fat and that’s what she did to DE.

I mentioned that she was a hypocrite for having an affair when she goes after others here for the same.

I admit that I was wrong and shouldn’t have said it on that thread.

I hope you have also talked to her about the same thing because making people feel badly because you are having issues isn’t right either.

I apologize for making those comments.

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@iamonfire696 You're a good person

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@SW-User I shouldn’t have said that but Deluxe was so proud of herself when she posted that pic talking about her eating disorder and how well she was doing and then that happened.

I couldn’t even imagine living with an ED because you need food to live and can’t stop eating. At least with an alcohol/drug addiction you can fully stop that.

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@iamonfire696 I don't know anyone else on here who would apologize like this ...too many are stuck within their own egos to even care ...you are amazing ...just saying

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@SW-User My good friend struggles with an eating disorder and at times it just looks like she’s wasting away. Thank you for saying that 😢.

ChiefJustWalks · 26-30

@iamonfire696 oh snap I actually know who this is referring to 😅 I was there. Yeeeaah I don't hate on the soda person really but I blocked her long ago after she started attacking me too 🤷 I ain't dealing with all that drama lol.

Also I know Cherny probably won't see this comment because she has me blocked now but I'm sorry Cherny 😭 my flirting was meant to be harmless stop being mad at me

basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M

@iamonfire696 thanks for apologizing. I agree with Chernobyl, most won't. However, in future , why do people have to gossip. If you have a problem with someone just tell them or block them. If they hurt you, tell them. I don't get why people aren't more direct.

I'm not claiming I'm perfect or anything. I've fucked up at times too, and I can be meaner than a snake with the shingles.

I felt the need to post this because Pepsi is a good friend of mine. She helped talk me out of suicide three years ago and have me immense support.

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@basilfawlty89 it’s okay she’s already shit talking about me, a direct quote from her.

oh there is a lot I could say about all of them but I'll wait until I'm two decades older like them and unhappy with my children or husband or dogs a

I am glad she helped you through that but she needs to grow up and worry about her own life.

basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M

@iamonfire696 but couldn't you do the same as well? I mean if she's talking shit about you after you talked shit about her, clearly you don't like each other. Just block and move on.

One thing I will though say is I agree body shaming is wrong, especially with people ED. But don't you often laugh along with Mexican fast food chain's jokes about fat men? That's kinda body shaming too.

ChiefJustWalks · 26-30

Me still getting these notifications now like 👀🍿

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@basilfawlty89 I blocked her a long time ago. Someone just let me know what she said.

You should give this same talk to your bff though. I don’t care what she does with her life. If she wants to have an affair good for her. It’s none of her business what happens in my marriage as it’s none of mine what happens in hers.

I have seen you laugh along too. I have never specifically targeted a user and said “you are fat, no man would want you, lose some weight”.

She needs to stop shaming women here, that’s the whole point