Do you still spend time on things and people you don't like if you aren't obligated to deal with them? Or do you just outright ignore and skip?

Sometimes, I do think politeness and manners can do its own kind of harm.

Sometimes when people are not in the mood, we end up selective to preserve energy on what and who we count as priorities.

But sometimes even if we do like things and people, we still make them wait just because.

So sometimes when I don't reply, sometimes it's not you but me. Maybe I'm looking for something better or maybe I'm looking for myself.