It is interesting
How many people thought my post yesterday was me being down on myself.
I wasn't at all. Part of life is knowing yourself and how people perceive you. That way, you can make changes to yourself if you want to.
Just because I know that i am undesireable to a large majority of those I could be with isn't a bad thing. I know why I am and, yes, I could choose to change those things to become more desireable, but then I wouldn't be true to who I am and I would lose my authenticity.
I also never said that I won't find someone. Maybe I will. Maybe I won't. I don't know. What I do know is that I want someone who finds me desireable even with all my undesireable parts, or maybe because of them. Because then, they desire me, and not just what I can do for them. And there is nothing better in the world than being desired for being your authentic self.
I wasn't at all. Part of life is knowing yourself and how people perceive you. That way, you can make changes to yourself if you want to.
Just because I know that i am undesireable to a large majority of those I could be with isn't a bad thing. I know why I am and, yes, I could choose to change those things to become more desireable, but then I wouldn't be true to who I am and I would lose my authenticity.
I also never said that I won't find someone. Maybe I will. Maybe I won't. I don't know. What I do know is that I want someone who finds me desireable even with all my undesireable parts, or maybe because of them. Because then, they desire me, and not just what I can do for them. And there is nothing better in the world than being desired for being your authentic self.
