I love all qualities about myself except...

I dislike myself for being so weak.... low-emotional resilience, low-self discipline, my inability to take lead by myself alone and make things happen, very negative thinker, self-critical and that i am kinda fearful type ( get scared easily and have many irrational fears).

I feel i don't deserve a decent partner with the negative qualities i have...

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Sylphrena · 31-35New

Well, the good news is you can work on all of those things. You deserve happiness!

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@Sylphrena i tried working on my fears... they didn't change much ( might need professional help)... But self-love helps with negative thinking and being over-critical. Maybe if i try, i can work on my emotional resilience and self-discipline too and improve them .

Sylphrena · 31-35New

@sahi81 I believe in you!

JRVanguard · 26-30, M

You have very low self esteem
Which is very relatable
But you absolutely deserve a partner

smiler2012 · 61-69

@sahi81 🤔nobody is perfect you know do not let your faults rule your head people will take you as they find

AngelKrish · 26-30, M

You need to heal and face things... Eventually you will see changes in you!
You are powerful believe it

Penny · 46-50, F

well, use your mind and work on it. like work on getting better

scbrandon · 26-30, M

You can’t truly be loved and love if you first don’t love yourself. Easier said than done for sure but it is true. Focus on the good, give yourself grace in the flaws. No one is perfect and no one should be expected to be

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