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Quick question before I leave for work

Do you find yourself really involved with someone here, whether it be a friend or something more, and then question yourself as to whether or not you're making a fool of yourself? Like are you a bit paranoid of being so attached to someone who maybe isn't even real?
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twistedrope · 26-30, M
Do I get paranoid I'm being a fool? Yes. So I just let my reply sit there, knowing if she doesn't reply in a day, she took issue and to move onto the next human being. Sometimes it just takes a few days and its a pleasant surprise.

Do I wonder if they're real? No. Life is too short to ponder such a thing. Someone is there, they may be lying, they may be telling the truth. It just takes time and the initial faith and my answer will come soon enough. Also I like voice calling so... That's a sure sign of life out there.

I know I'm a good person and that I deserve to be given the time to hang out. Any rude behaviour that comes from others is their problem.
Tumbleweed · F
@twistedrope Thank you for that. It makes me feel so much better. 🙂
twistedrope · 26-30, M
@Tumbleweed I'm glad you liked it <3 It took an unbelievable amount of trial and error and failure and pain to get this into such a state to say it in a concise easy to recall way.

Otherwise my desire to panic send messages and fear of abandonment would win out over that common sense.
Tumbleweed · F
@twistedrope I think my problem is that I just want to be somebody's 'only' but I also have enough sense to know where I am & it's pretty much anything goes here...
twistedrope · 26-30, M
@Tumbleweed There's nothing wrong with a bit of selfishness.

I certainly would never permit or allow myself partaking in a poly relationship...

If its a friendship, I can't afford to be that selfish >.> As I want lots of friends to hang out with and stuff. You be okay though. You're right, you got good sense I think.
Tumbleweed · F
@twistedrope Thank you 🙂
Foodie60 · 36-40, M
@Tumbleweed to be someone’s only is a lovely feeling