Do I get paranoid I'm being a fool? Yes. So I just let my reply sit there, knowing if she doesn't reply in a day, she took issue and to move onto the next human being. Sometimes it just takes a few days and its a pleasant surprise.
Do I wonder if they're real? No. Life is too short to ponder such a thing. Someone is there, they may be lying, they may be telling the truth. It just takes time and the initial faith and my answer will come soon enough. Also I like voice calling so... That's a sure sign of life out there.
I know I'm a good person and that I deserve to be given the time to hang out. Any rude behaviour that comes from others is their problem.