How would you react if your woman surprised you with a abortion?

How would you feel if you were sleeping with a steady girlfriend for a year, everything was going great, moved in together, and one day you get back and see her sleeping early in bed. You crawl in under the covers and start running your fingers along her hips, and she lovingly rolls away from you, turning her back saying "Not tonight honey, I just had a abortion" and then falls asleep like nothing just happened.

This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »

swirlie

To many women, having an abortion is just another form of birth control. If you don't practice 'safe sex' with your girlfriend, then don't sound so surprised the next time she practices her own solution to your lack of awareness to otherwise have safe sex with her.

Tiredish · 41-45, F

@swirlie She should discuss it with him beforehand if they actually have a relationship.

If she didnt, then there is no open communication, and trust is broken.

As far as 'safe sex', yeah he shouldnt be surprised that she was pregnant.

Handfull1 · 61-69, F

@swirlie that’s where the problem lies. It should never be just another form of birth control.