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Not at all. I’m an introvert, soft spoken and reserved—always have been. I attract extroverts, both as partners and as friends. I tend to be attracted to other introverts, but that’s rarely who’s interested in [b]me[/b].
Cloud7593 · 46-50, F
@bijouxbroussard Interesting. Im an introvert and most extroverted men saw me as boring.
@Cloud7593 A guy once told me, "Quiet women are a challenge." I remember wishing he’d find some other way to ‘challenge’ himself. 🙄
Jexie · 26-30, F
@bijouxbroussard That's actually true. Now that I think about it, I'm an introvert but I've attracted extroverts 🤔

PhilDeep · 51-55, M
I think that we have patterns in how we behave, so they will affect our choices, including who we allow to get close to us; so, in a round-about-way, sort of.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
Not necessarily you are what you attract. But you might subconsciously be attracted to things like familiarity (even if negative) someone who's similar to a role figure in your life, or someone who's completely different from yourself because you want new experiences and thrill.
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
You may attract all sorts of awesome guys who just aren't as forward as the maniacs. It's about who you curate not who curates you.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@CountScrofula Well said. Also thanks for giving a face of you. It's always nice to put a face to a name ☺️

The maniacs are very fast with showering compliments and constantly texting calling etc. They make you addicted to them very fast. And then they mix that woyh cold shoulders insults and distance to make the addicted person miss them and crawl after them. This keeps you constantly confused and on alert.

While normal people don't have any rush. They make you feel calm and safe and you know where you have them. Their characteristics are solid. No mix of love and rejection etc. This can come off boring to a person who's used with abusive dating. While for others, this is love. More than anything.
kutee · T
you need to go and find your men, don tlet them find you
I don’t think so. My bf is my polar opposite. Very stable, kind, and grounded. At least in my life, opposites attract has been more of a reality 😅
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
No I don't. There can be unhealed parts of us that go for less than we deserve, but I've never attracted a man with many qualities in common. I wish I could.
TheOthetAcc · 36-40, M
There are two sayings. One is [i]like attracts like, [/i]the other is [i]opposites attract[/i]. Both can be true
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Well "... It just might be a lunatic, that you are looking for"! 🙃😁

How is your electric chair? 😈
Maybe not crazy.... but it does make you a self admitted

[b]BUM MAGNET[/b]
Fertilization · 36-40, F
I like
‘You are what you eat.’ 😉
HumanEarth · 56-60, M
Welcome to my world
Redstar · 36-40, M
No, it doesn't make any sense to say that people are what they attract. For example, some people attract people who turn out to be abusive partners. That doesn't mean they are also abusive.
Justenjoyit · 56-60, M
I just think a lot of women just sit there and pick one of the men who will run after them, so maybe you pick what is comfortable.
DDonde · 31-35, M
No, it's bullshit
Lilnonames · F
Attract a crazy woman u be fine😄

 
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